Roadrunner_United
01-31-2007, 02:56 PM
Reprogramming Your Mind
by The Doctor
I had a great revelation in thinking due to some reprogramming I have done with the help of Swinggcat.
"I am the Prize. She wants me so bad. She is trying to get me to sleep with her. I will only sleep with her if she meets my expectations."
Say it three times a day -- morning, noon, and night. Repeat it daily.
I go Salsa dancing about 4 times a week and I used to feel like the rejections from dance offers to ladies was based on ME personally. I would get angry and feel like it was something about ME that made them reject my offer.
I would usually approach 15-20 girls a night or more, and the more I was rejected, the more I would feel horrible. The percentage of rejections went down when I thought about Swinggcat's affirmation. I would just smile and say the line back again through my mind.
I also used to think about the rejections later in the evening when I was alone and get sad about my failures about my approach or my looks, or my style, or my dancing, or whatever.
One night it hit me -- I woke up and my thoughts were so right on. All the scenarios I would dream up constantly defeating me were gone. The script was flipped. I was the prize. The girls didn't want to dance because it was their issues, not mine.
I also apply this to dating situations. It works so well. Now the ladies ask me to dance.
by The Doctor
I had a great revelation in thinking due to some reprogramming I have done with the help of Swinggcat.
"I am the Prize. She wants me so bad. She is trying to get me to sleep with her. I will only sleep with her if she meets my expectations."
Say it three times a day -- morning, noon, and night. Repeat it daily.
I go Salsa dancing about 4 times a week and I used to feel like the rejections from dance offers to ladies was based on ME personally. I would get angry and feel like it was something about ME that made them reject my offer.
I would usually approach 15-20 girls a night or more, and the more I was rejected, the more I would feel horrible. The percentage of rejections went down when I thought about Swinggcat's affirmation. I would just smile and say the line back again through my mind.
I also used to think about the rejections later in the evening when I was alone and get sad about my failures about my approach or my looks, or my style, or my dancing, or whatever.
One night it hit me -- I woke up and my thoughts were so right on. All the scenarios I would dream up constantly defeating me were gone. The script was flipped. I was the prize. The girls didn't want to dance because it was their issues, not mine.
I also apply this to dating situations. It works so well. Now the ladies ask me to dance.