Assume attraction

[tompte]

This by far works the best for me. We guys suck at picking up girls signals and many girls suck at giving them out, and often don't even know they are attracted to you until later. Just assume all's well and lead them. That's what they want, to be led by a confident guy, no matter what they claim.

[chris3]

Also I think it is good to test for compliance.

[kalc]

this is a good idea.....if you maintain a frame of mind that she is already attracted then everything will flow naturally.....you should never tradeoff your frame in order to seek value.

[Pronto]

Mine is a little different from that.

If she's attractive enough to me, I will go over, assuming that she's neutral. Not negative, not positive.

Then I test her to see if she meets my requirements, by talking to her, seeing what she's all about and at the same time testing her for response.

Cute isn't enough. Some take too much energy from you, either too dumb, or not experienced, or too negative. Or some I'll take on, just for the challenge. Sometimes you still don't find out till later that they're a freak show, but screening, for me, always works out better.

Too many good women, to waste my time with the clunkers!

[learningismypassion]

Women have the innate ability to read guys like a book. If you give even the tiniest hint of fear they will know and label you as a man who lacks confidence. If I'm interested in a women, I will most always approach her and establish a good rapport. Sure there are times when I'm rejected but most of the time I'll wind up getting her number. Almost always the women that I meet tell me that what really turned them on was my confidence in the way I approached them.

[mrd]

yes, assume attraction, no need to run attraction, just be an attractive guy

[Cloud9]

Assuming the best in all situations is a very powerful thing. Assuming she wants you, assuming you are the man, assuming she can't stop thinking about you etc etc, even if it's not necessarily true will benefit you because you are sending unconscious signals through body language etc that will in turn make this become the reality. Creating reality with thought is the most powerful things humans can do. Use it to your advantage.