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03-28-2008, 07:23 AM
Hey,
Today, you're going to learn a Counterintuitive secret to creating
attraction!!! This change will catapult the success in your
interactions with women.
An element in creating attraction is the gentle art of teasing.
This is very counterintuitive. This simply means that it goes
against your normal way of thinking.
What happens when you meet an attractive woman?
When most guys meet an attractive girl whom they desire,
they tend to turn into ass-kissers
who want to lavish her with flowers and gifts.
This is NOT attractive. Always remember this!
***Kissing ass is not attractive.***
There is a time and a place to do buy flowers and gifts but doing so
upon meeting a woman is not the time or the place for it.
(There are guys who can do these things and create attraction,
but they are able to do so without appearing needy. Most men do not fit
this category.)
Most men meet a beautiful woman and they feel
compelled to start spending money on her,
shower her with gifts and expensive dinners.
It's natural to want to be generous towards people you really care
about but a woman you've just met (or a first date) does not qualify
as someone you genuinely care about.
She is someone you are interested in getting to know better.
That's all it is at this point, and I want you to internalize
that belief.
You might say, "When I like a girl, I want to show her how much I
care about her."
I'd say bullcrap. You want to spend money on her in hopes
that she will like you in return.
Stop right now, and think about what I am saying for a few minutes.
You'll find that it is unequivocally true.
Let me put it this way, if she were unattractive, would you feel
the same way?
If she looked like a demon, imagine Gene Simmons of the Rock band Kiss
with tits, (how is that for a sick visual?) would you still
shower her with gifts?
Would you feel compelled to buy an expensive dinner for the demon and
bring it cute flowers?
Of course not! It's not even an option. You are not insane.
So in essence, by spending a lot of money on her, you are trying
to buy her approval and love.
This almost never works. People are not attracted to others who
kiss their ass. This means you must stop supplicating in order
to win a girl over. Ass-kissing is not an attractive quality. It
never has been, and it probably never will be.
The next time you are going to blow a 100-dollars on an expensive
dinner to win a girl over, remember this article and put your money
back in your pocket.
Buy your mother or father (or both) a gift in appreciation for
putting up with all of your crap during your teenage years.
Tell them you bought them a gift on a recommendation from Cameron Teone.
(If you still have money left over, buy my E-book. It'll change
your dating life forever and beyond.) But for crying out loud,
don't blow your money on some stranger you just met.
So if you are not going to buy random strangers gifts,
expensive dinners and such, what are you going to do?
You can learn to be PLAYFUL and TEASE women.
This is something you can start practicing as of today.
It may not come easy to you as this is counterintuitive to most men.
Right about now you're thinking,
"You mean start making fun of girls I like?" Well, yes and no.
You can tease and be playful and yet not cross the line into
becoming insulting. Most men make the mistake of overdoing it and
they end up insulting women with mean spirited comments.
Let me explain it this way:
Think about the way you are with your close pals.
When you are hanging out at a social gathering,
be it watching the ball game with the guys, going to dinner,
or a social club, you tend to poke fun at each other in a
light hearted manner and humorous way.
But then suddenly, when it comes to women, you start
dropping your fun persona. This is crazy.
You are putting a halt to doing what makes you fun and interesting.
You did not make friends with your current pals because
you asked them out to go to a 5 star restaurant, did you?
(If you did, you really got problems, pal.)
It's the same way when it comes to attraction. If you'd like to
attract desirable women of your choice, then you must be able to
have fun and allow them to see that spending time
with you will be enjoyable.
There are numerous ways to tease women and I have met guys who do some
light teasing to the ones who are much more hardcore.
Imagine if she said something off the wall and instead of you
agreeing in order to win her approval, you said,
"Uh oh, I don't know about you."
How different would that be? It would change the entire dynamic of
the conversation. The key to delivering these lines is to have a
sly smile and a playful tone. You are not a detective questioning
a suspect in a crime.
You are having fun and it should be obvious that you are having fun.
You'll be able to create your own style of teasing but I'll give
you some ideas as well.
One way to tease that is extremely fun is by assuming a relationship
already exists between you two.
Comments such as, "We may have to break up." Or
"This relationship isn't working out" are almost guaranteed to get
a reaction, especially when you have only known the girl for 30 minutes.
If you want to pour it on, you can use the clichéd break-up verbiages
such as "Really, it's not you. It's me." It makes for fun banter
and small talk.
(Note: The key is to deliver these lines with a playful tonality!)
Some of my pals who are hardcore teasers may feel a girl bump into
them in a busy nightclub. They will not hesitate to turn around and
say something along the lines of,
"Whoa!! Did you just grab my ass?"
This is something that is individually suited to their style.
You have to feel your own way. You do have to be careful with these
hardcore teases. Not all girls appreciate this type of humor,
and generally if you are a good looking guy, you just may come
across as an arrogant prick.
However, in the proper circumstances,
they will get a positive reaction and they are instant icebreakers.
One fun way to tease is to always assume that she already likes you
and wants you. If a woman puts a hand on you, you could respond with
something fun like,
"Well, if you are going to do that, at least buy me a drink first."
or
"Hey, making the moves on me already? Whatever happened to a dinner
and a movie?"
[Again, I reiterate: Your toanlity and demeanor should exude a fun
and playful aura.]
You can use the examples I have provided but you can also come up with a
lot of your own.
The simple element of teasing by itself will not transform
you into Don Juan overnight but it is an important step towards this
direction. You can begin experimenting with this to gauge what
works best for you.
You must discover what type of teases you enjoy doing and which ones
get the best reaction. You are not being a jerk.
You are having fun and girls will have fun with you.
You can practice these everywhere. They don't necessarily have to
be done with girls you are approaching to "Hit on."
Most men make the mistake of having an on/off switch. Either they
are hitting on a girl, or they are not talking to her at all. This
is a classic mistake that most men make.
You can practice teasing women out at the coffee shop,
at the supermarket, and wherever else you run into women.
I'd suggest avoiding the hardcore teases at the workplace
as they could cause problems.
You will find that you'll start generating attraction much
more so than before by sampling changing your style to be more playful.
Imagine being childlike again. Observe children and see how playful
they are. They have fun and don't take things so seriously.
Get back in touch with that part of you that has fun and enjoys
being playful.
Imagine an attractive woman sitting next to you right now!
Imagine that she really wants you. She is staring at you as though
she were an alcoholic looking at the last bottle of booze in
the county.
What would you say to her? Think about this.
You already know she wants you.
What would you say to her? (Hey, keep it clean.) Maybe you'd say
something like this: "So, you ready to get out of here?"
That's an example of a fun tease. Now, imagine saying that to a
girl who complimented you on something (your shirt, watch, whatever.)
You turn around and say, "You ready to get out of here?"
Now, that's funny. It's confident and it's playful!
You are misinterpreting her compliment as a sign that she wants you
in the worst way. Even if you offended her, she'd still remember you
for a long time.
Speaking of which, I do have to give you one warning:
You may have to really work on your tonality and demeanor
to come across as playful.
She can tell you are having fun and are joking,
(though perhaps part of her isn't really sure.)
If you try this type of teasing-humor and fail at it repeatedly, it is
because you are coming across as too serious and too "matter of fact."
So get back to your piece of paper. Write down ideas on how you can tease
people in general. It can be about anything. Look at the circumstances
you are in.
If you're in a restaurant and see someone ordering a
greasy meal with a bunch of French fries on top,
you might say something to the tune of,
"Wow, nothing like a good plate of health-food."
Or, "I see you're going healthy today. What's the occasion?"
A bit of playful sarcasm is fun and it can go a long way in creating a fun
personal interaction.
You do have to learn to calibrate the people
you speak with, but that will come with time.
Some guys get the wrong impression as they begin
to think they must do this nonstop.
There is no need for that.
A FEW teases here and there are all you
really need to transform yourself from
boring-guy to an interestingand appealing guy.
Again, there is a learning curve and this is a process.
It may take you a while to discover what you are
comfortable with and what fits your personality. Also,
take into account the culture you live in,
especially if you are a foreigner living abroad.
Teasing and humor are universal principles but you may have to make
minor adjustments depending upon the culture.
You have learnt a valuable lesson today that
will make a defining change in your interactions with women.
Instead of kissing their ass, offering to buy them drinks,
and such, you are going to learn to tease them and have fun!
Believe me, they'll appreciate it too.
Women are tired of boring guys trying to buy their time.
They are looking for guys who are able to have fun and be interesting.
That means you!
What are you gonna wait around for?
Start having FUN with these interactions!!
Stay tuned for part 4 of the newsletter. It'll change the way you
live your life.
Feel free to send me your Success stories, or ask questions at
CameronTeone@yahoo.com
Wishing you the best,
Cameron Teone
Today, you're going to learn a Counterintuitive secret to creating
attraction!!! This change will catapult the success in your
interactions with women.
An element in creating attraction is the gentle art of teasing.
This is very counterintuitive. This simply means that it goes
against your normal way of thinking.
What happens when you meet an attractive woman?
When most guys meet an attractive girl whom they desire,
they tend to turn into ass-kissers
who want to lavish her with flowers and gifts.
This is NOT attractive. Always remember this!
***Kissing ass is not attractive.***
There is a time and a place to do buy flowers and gifts but doing so
upon meeting a woman is not the time or the place for it.
(There are guys who can do these things and create attraction,
but they are able to do so without appearing needy. Most men do not fit
this category.)
Most men meet a beautiful woman and they feel
compelled to start spending money on her,
shower her with gifts and expensive dinners.
It's natural to want to be generous towards people you really care
about but a woman you've just met (or a first date) does not qualify
as someone you genuinely care about.
She is someone you are interested in getting to know better.
That's all it is at this point, and I want you to internalize
that belief.
You might say, "When I like a girl, I want to show her how much I
care about her."
I'd say bullcrap. You want to spend money on her in hopes
that she will like you in return.
Stop right now, and think about what I am saying for a few minutes.
You'll find that it is unequivocally true.
Let me put it this way, if she were unattractive, would you feel
the same way?
If she looked like a demon, imagine Gene Simmons of the Rock band Kiss
with tits, (how is that for a sick visual?) would you still
shower her with gifts?
Would you feel compelled to buy an expensive dinner for the demon and
bring it cute flowers?
Of course not! It's not even an option. You are not insane.
So in essence, by spending a lot of money on her, you are trying
to buy her approval and love.
This almost never works. People are not attracted to others who
kiss their ass. This means you must stop supplicating in order
to win a girl over. Ass-kissing is not an attractive quality. It
never has been, and it probably never will be.
The next time you are going to blow a 100-dollars on an expensive
dinner to win a girl over, remember this article and put your money
back in your pocket.
Buy your mother or father (or both) a gift in appreciation for
putting up with all of your crap during your teenage years.
Tell them you bought them a gift on a recommendation from Cameron Teone.
(If you still have money left over, buy my E-book. It'll change
your dating life forever and beyond.) But for crying out loud,
don't blow your money on some stranger you just met.
So if you are not going to buy random strangers gifts,
expensive dinners and such, what are you going to do?
You can learn to be PLAYFUL and TEASE women.
This is something you can start practicing as of today.
It may not come easy to you as this is counterintuitive to most men.
Right about now you're thinking,
"You mean start making fun of girls I like?" Well, yes and no.
You can tease and be playful and yet not cross the line into
becoming insulting. Most men make the mistake of overdoing it and
they end up insulting women with mean spirited comments.
Let me explain it this way:
Think about the way you are with your close pals.
When you are hanging out at a social gathering,
be it watching the ball game with the guys, going to dinner,
or a social club, you tend to poke fun at each other in a
light hearted manner and humorous way.
But then suddenly, when it comes to women, you start
dropping your fun persona. This is crazy.
You are putting a halt to doing what makes you fun and interesting.
You did not make friends with your current pals because
you asked them out to go to a 5 star restaurant, did you?
(If you did, you really got problems, pal.)
It's the same way when it comes to attraction. If you'd like to
attract desirable women of your choice, then you must be able to
have fun and allow them to see that spending time
with you will be enjoyable.
There are numerous ways to tease women and I have met guys who do some
light teasing to the ones who are much more hardcore.
Imagine if she said something off the wall and instead of you
agreeing in order to win her approval, you said,
"Uh oh, I don't know about you."
How different would that be? It would change the entire dynamic of
the conversation. The key to delivering these lines is to have a
sly smile and a playful tone. You are not a detective questioning
a suspect in a crime.
You are having fun and it should be obvious that you are having fun.
You'll be able to create your own style of teasing but I'll give
you some ideas as well.
One way to tease that is extremely fun is by assuming a relationship
already exists between you two.
Comments such as, "We may have to break up." Or
"This relationship isn't working out" are almost guaranteed to get
a reaction, especially when you have only known the girl for 30 minutes.
If you want to pour it on, you can use the clichéd break-up verbiages
such as "Really, it's not you. It's me." It makes for fun banter
and small talk.
(Note: The key is to deliver these lines with a playful tonality!)
Some of my pals who are hardcore teasers may feel a girl bump into
them in a busy nightclub. They will not hesitate to turn around and
say something along the lines of,
"Whoa!! Did you just grab my ass?"
This is something that is individually suited to their style.
You have to feel your own way. You do have to be careful with these
hardcore teases. Not all girls appreciate this type of humor,
and generally if you are a good looking guy, you just may come
across as an arrogant prick.
However, in the proper circumstances,
they will get a positive reaction and they are instant icebreakers.
One fun way to tease is to always assume that she already likes you
and wants you. If a woman puts a hand on you, you could respond with
something fun like,
"Well, if you are going to do that, at least buy me a drink first."
or
"Hey, making the moves on me already? Whatever happened to a dinner
and a movie?"
[Again, I reiterate: Your toanlity and demeanor should exude a fun
and playful aura.]
You can use the examples I have provided but you can also come up with a
lot of your own.
The simple element of teasing by itself will not transform
you into Don Juan overnight but it is an important step towards this
direction. You can begin experimenting with this to gauge what
works best for you.
You must discover what type of teases you enjoy doing and which ones
get the best reaction. You are not being a jerk.
You are having fun and girls will have fun with you.
You can practice these everywhere. They don't necessarily have to
be done with girls you are approaching to "Hit on."
Most men make the mistake of having an on/off switch. Either they
are hitting on a girl, or they are not talking to her at all. This
is a classic mistake that most men make.
You can practice teasing women out at the coffee shop,
at the supermarket, and wherever else you run into women.
I'd suggest avoiding the hardcore teases at the workplace
as they could cause problems.
You will find that you'll start generating attraction much
more so than before by sampling changing your style to be more playful.
Imagine being childlike again. Observe children and see how playful
they are. They have fun and don't take things so seriously.
Get back in touch with that part of you that has fun and enjoys
being playful.
Imagine an attractive woman sitting next to you right now!
Imagine that she really wants you. She is staring at you as though
she were an alcoholic looking at the last bottle of booze in
the county.
What would you say to her? Think about this.
You already know she wants you.
What would you say to her? (Hey, keep it clean.) Maybe you'd say
something like this: "So, you ready to get out of here?"
That's an example of a fun tease. Now, imagine saying that to a
girl who complimented you on something (your shirt, watch, whatever.)
You turn around and say, "You ready to get out of here?"
Now, that's funny. It's confident and it's playful!
You are misinterpreting her compliment as a sign that she wants you
in the worst way. Even if you offended her, she'd still remember you
for a long time.
Speaking of which, I do have to give you one warning:
You may have to really work on your tonality and demeanor
to come across as playful.
She can tell you are having fun and are joking,
(though perhaps part of her isn't really sure.)
If you try this type of teasing-humor and fail at it repeatedly, it is
because you are coming across as too serious and too "matter of fact."
So get back to your piece of paper. Write down ideas on how you can tease
people in general. It can be about anything. Look at the circumstances
you are in.
If you're in a restaurant and see someone ordering a
greasy meal with a bunch of French fries on top,
you might say something to the tune of,
"Wow, nothing like a good plate of health-food."
Or, "I see you're going healthy today. What's the occasion?"
A bit of playful sarcasm is fun and it can go a long way in creating a fun
personal interaction.
You do have to learn to calibrate the people
you speak with, but that will come with time.
Some guys get the wrong impression as they begin
to think they must do this nonstop.
There is no need for that.
A FEW teases here and there are all you
really need to transform yourself from
boring-guy to an interestingand appealing guy.
Again, there is a learning curve and this is a process.
It may take you a while to discover what you are
comfortable with and what fits your personality. Also,
take into account the culture you live in,
especially if you are a foreigner living abroad.
Teasing and humor are universal principles but you may have to make
minor adjustments depending upon the culture.
You have learnt a valuable lesson today that
will make a defining change in your interactions with women.
Instead of kissing their ass, offering to buy them drinks,
and such, you are going to learn to tease them and have fun!
Believe me, they'll appreciate it too.
Women are tired of boring guys trying to buy their time.
They are looking for guys who are able to have fun and be interesting.
That means you!
What are you gonna wait around for?
Start having FUN with these interactions!!
Stay tuned for part 4 of the newsletter. It'll change the way you
live your life.
Feel free to send me your Success stories, or ask questions at
CameronTeone@yahoo.com
Wishing you the best,
Cameron Teone