Roadrunner_United
02-01-2007, 04:22 PM
I usually use this with a girl I've met or hung out with just once or twice (WHILE TALKING ONLINE), it's a good way to DHV yourself and ensure some contact.
I used to teach martial arts and I help coach the high school wrestling team, so this is a pretty good seguay for me, but even if you haven't done these things it won't really matter...plus as Style says, "It's not lying, it's flirting".
So anyway, during a conversation I'll steer it towards activities or things she likes to do with her time besides however we met. The conversation will normally go something like this:
Me: (Generic way of asking what she does in her spare time)
Her: (blah blah, how about you?)
Me: Nothing too major, I help coach the high school wrestling team when I have time, I used to teach martial arts and stuff too.
Her: Ohh no way, that's cool!
Me: Yeah, I can teach you a few things if you want
Her: (She almost invariably says yes here, knowing damn well that wrestling is a physical thing between you two PLUS you've DHV'd yourself by showing a skill and being able to teach it to her)
Me: Alright sounds good...too bad you'll never win though, since I know your weakness!
Her: Oh really, and what is that?
Me: Well, if I had to take a wild guess, I'd say you're probably ticklish.
Her Either "OMG YEAH" or "Actually, noooope". (Regardless of response here, you can improvise: If she says yes, tell her now you've got to find out where, and if she says no, tell her you bet you can find a spot on her body where she's sensitive)
This dialogue establishes rapport really well and also gauges how comfortable she will be in a physical situation with you. On top of it all, you've showed you can offer her something and subtly turned a playful thing into something she'll view as a little more sexual. And of course if she says that she hates being tickled, simply tell her it hasn't been done the right way then, and offer to demonstrate how it should be done. And if this road doesn't work, she's already agreed to the wrestling which is just as good.
So anyway, any feedback is appreciated, but I've had consistent results with this and there is always a way to work it into the next time you two hang out (as long as you're alone with her of course), and get some serious kino, and of course much more if you're smooth about it. And if she's really not receptive to the idea, you don't have to waste your time making plans with her, and just move on to someone who's more comfortable with you physically, nothing ventured nothing gained.
I used to teach martial arts and I help coach the high school wrestling team, so this is a pretty good seguay for me, but even if you haven't done these things it won't really matter...plus as Style says, "It's not lying, it's flirting".
So anyway, during a conversation I'll steer it towards activities or things she likes to do with her time besides however we met. The conversation will normally go something like this:
Me: (Generic way of asking what she does in her spare time)
Her: (blah blah, how about you?)
Me: Nothing too major, I help coach the high school wrestling team when I have time, I used to teach martial arts and stuff too.
Her: Ohh no way, that's cool!
Me: Yeah, I can teach you a few things if you want
Her: (She almost invariably says yes here, knowing damn well that wrestling is a physical thing between you two PLUS you've DHV'd yourself by showing a skill and being able to teach it to her)
Me: Alright sounds good...too bad you'll never win though, since I know your weakness!
Her: Oh really, and what is that?
Me: Well, if I had to take a wild guess, I'd say you're probably ticklish.
Her Either "OMG YEAH" or "Actually, noooope". (Regardless of response here, you can improvise: If she says yes, tell her now you've got to find out where, and if she says no, tell her you bet you can find a spot on her body where she's sensitive)
This dialogue establishes rapport really well and also gauges how comfortable she will be in a physical situation with you. On top of it all, you've showed you can offer her something and subtly turned a playful thing into something she'll view as a little more sexual. And of course if she says that she hates being tickled, simply tell her it hasn't been done the right way then, and offer to demonstrate how it should be done. And if this road doesn't work, she's already agreed to the wrestling which is just as good.
So anyway, any feedback is appreciated, but I've had consistent results with this and there is always a way to work it into the next time you two hang out (as long as you're alone with her of course), and get some serious kino, and of course much more if you're smooth about it. And if she's really not receptive to the idea, you don't have to waste your time making plans with her, and just move on to someone who's more comfortable with you physically, nothing ventured nothing gained.