Open ended questions

[chris3]

I wanted to start a thread about open ended questions. I am particularly interested in ones with back stories and rooting. I want to use to create open concersation loops. I will get us started.

1. You look like a well read person, What is a good book you read lately.(jugler)

2. You know my Ex used to say there are two types of people in this world: Boring and crazy. What is the most adventurus thing you have done lately
( Mr M TMM)

3. Can you cook? I used to know this striper who used to cook the best plate of pasta I ever tasted.
Girl: WTF
You: Well you look just like her, Do you have a favourite dish to cook
( this one is all mine)

Any help on this would be great. I hope this become a long thread

[mustaine]

LOL nice, I have some will look for them and then post them bro

[joseph]

I hear dimitri has a bunch of question this type,but look like him dont participate more charisma arts,i dont know if is true,but once, he talk about this,i have dificullt with this type question after open the girl...fuck!!

[DevVvo]

This is interesting, what are open ended questions? ;)

[chris3]

Open ended questions are questions that spark investment. That is they can't be arnserd with a one word yes or no arnser.

Good tips: How, Why and what are good words to use. You can add to a question Things like

How did that make you feel

What was that like

Why did you Feel/do like that.


The basic idea is one of the main mistakes when early in set is bombarding your target with questions. You need to get them invested. I highly recomend The juggler Method Bootcamp DVD.

There were some good questions to spark investment in TMM hardcover

What is your favourite colour?

What did you think of high school?

What did you have for dinner last night?

Have you ever been to the hospital emergency room?

How old were you when you first got drunk?

Did you and your siblings fKeep secrets?

What's your favourite food? holiday spot place to visit?

These are all okay but just randomly asking questions like this without a reason for asking them may come of a bit wierd.

These are realy for the beginig of the interaction when you want to get the girl talking. If you can stack a few of these together she should start to invest a bit and you can have a normal conversation.

I highly recomend you Go out and buy The Mystery Method from amazon. You can download it hear for free but realy it is woth the £ 7.99 for the hard coppy. Also download The Juggler method bootcamp. They are the two best in my opinion.

[chris3]

Hear is a list of good questions I got from the complete book of questions from amazon.

If anyone can think of back storys or presumtions to go with them that would be a great help.

Whose the closet friendship you ever had, describe the relationship?

What kind of movies to you enjoy the most, Why?

What's the first thing that comes to mind when you say fun?

What are the wildest animals you ever touched?

What do your friends predict you will grumble about most?

Who's the smartest person you know?

How would you describe your most magical chilhood moment?

What makes your hart beat fast?

[Dimensio]

you sure are asking her to reveal a lot of personal info & as thosequestions give data based answers, its going to be difficult to get a nice flowing conversation going .

how would you value build before asking those???

[chris3]

Yeah that was kinda the point of what I was trying to say. You need a back story so you can ask these questions. Or some reason to ask these questions. or a cool gambit. The in formation they give you starts aconversation loop. If you stack two of these either side of a cool gambit( I.e.) masturbate in the shower rotine you have threee open loops to go from.

I used to use the E.S.P. routine as a transition.

"Hey check this out"

" pick a number between one and four. Don't tell me" Put finger on lips Kino

"Tell me when you were a little girle what did you want to be"

"Tree"

(her: Wow how you do that)

"be quiet" Finger on mouth

" now pick a number between one and 10"

"now if you could be anything in the world, What would it be"

"seven"


Am I exlaining myself proerly

[SSCaddick]

Juggler is amaster with this

[temposanchez]

looks like i'm gonna need to watch some juggler material cos this is something i need to improve on. My problem is telling a story and making it really interesting in what i'm saying