Cards for seduction

[sueda]

Cards for seduction
I've used this card game before with women as foreplay. Tell me what you guy's think.
I have a deck of Kama Sutra cards showing all the positions for sex.
I tell the woman that we are going to play poker (5 card draw).
Who ever wins get's to tell the other person what to do for 10 seconds.
Such as if I win, I tell her she has to show me her boobs, panties, lick her belly, lick her nipples, etc......
Pretty soon the both of you get very immaginative and risky until were both worked up.
Great way for having sex the first time with a girl when you have'nt seen her without her clothes on.


Enjoy

[Annika]

Hmmm... Interesting idea.
This MIGHT work on some girls...
But I don't think it would work on me... I'll tell you why:

If I was hanging out with a guy who I've never had sex with before (and I was still unsure as to whether or not I wanted to have sex with him) I think I might feel a bit uncomfortable with the card game you mentioned, and this might actually scare me off. If you are dealing with a HB, you have to remember that guys are ALWAYS hitting on us and chasing us for dates/sex... I would much rather just hang out with a guy who is being fun and friendly, someone who builds a lot of sexual tension, and keeps me guessing. I like it when guys are fun & playful, yet they play it cool and make me feel comfortable with them... This is disarming. Hmmm, it's kinda hard to describe.... I guess I respond better to a guy who is acting ALMOST as if he wanted to be "just friends" but then he throws in a few subtle flirts & cute little teases here and there to build the tension... this is exciting because at first it makes me think that maybe he is NOT planning to make a move on me me, but then I start to WONDER if maybe he will, and after that I often I start HOPING he will make a move... It's the ANTICIPATION that is EXCITING to women!! When I look back at the guys who I've dated/had sex with, I know this is so very true... Some of the guys I've dated were really not even all that good-looking, and everyone would ask him HOW in the world did he ever manage to get a girl like me? LOL! I've given this a LOT of thought over the years, and I've found that most of these guys followed this strategy above... There were also a few of my guy-friends who managed to make their way out of "The Friend Zone" using this method :)

I know there are a lot of guys out there who don't like taking advice from a girl, but I just thought I would let you see this from a woman's point of view :). Let me know what you guys think!

Good Luck!
~ Annika :)

[Nargaroth]

Depends on the girl's personality.

On some "meat & potatoes" girls this won't work - she'll think you're stalling and basically that you're weak.

However, if you frame & execute it correctly, it can work wonders on all other (types of) women. You are being friendly... and being a challenge at a same time.

It's based on same principle as negs and Swinggcat's Fourfold Metaframe - "she's not quite good enough for me... yet"

[buatgila]

is there anyone have the card?

can i download it?

[Nargaroth]

It's a deck of cards, so no point in downloading it :)

Even if you printed them, they'd look crappy. If you want 'em, go to the artistic part of the town and hit the stores that sell incense, books on tantra, new-age, magic, tarot and that kinda stuff.

You should find it there, for probably 10-15 Euros or less.