Love Ninja
07-06-2008, 01:50 AM
Why such a title? Well in the same spirit that the American morale fell through when losing the war in Somalia, the same way has my Game has been tormented by a somali girl.
I want/hope you guys can help me out and give some advice on what to do regarding this particular situation.
I met her in business class and i used a situational opener "What did you get on your midterm?" with good Body Language. As result, we compared exams and everything went smoothly until number close, which she requested a day two, being a "study session".
Day Two: In the study session, we are in isolation in the library, IOIs, i run DHV stories, C & F, and some brief kino escalation, yet she is sitting too far away from me to do anything. When reading, she randomly asks me if I can remember any information from the books. This is an IOI, and i return IOI with "No i cant remember anything". We decide to leave and meet up the next day.
Day Three: We are now sitting in the university library cubicles, so we cannot talk to each other in order to ACTUALLY study (final exam the next day). Regardless, very little studying and mostly whisper chatting. I cannot kino escalate because of physical barriers (the cubicles) but we talk, she offers to scan me 30 pages of notes (I think this is an IOI) and does so.
Day Four, Exam Day: She is at the library I'm at home, she calls me up and says that "I cannot study at all, I can't remember anything", IOI anyone? I say that she should sit next to me and we should cheat together. Exam time, we text each other the answers and conspiracy is built. We go for icecream later, but I realize as I try to walk closer to her she pulls away. IOD, I try several times to walk closer to her but she keeps pulling away, WTF?!?!?! If I cannot get any proximity, how am I going to get kino?
Day Five: I ask her out to the local Casino, we talk for an 1hr on the phone. She agrees
Day Seven: She flakes and declines Casino invitation 2 hours prior through text messaging "hey hey sorry i cannot make it, Im too busy" I reply "Spain is going to destroy Germany 3-0!!" She is half german half somalian, her reply "Well maybe we should go another day & forget about spain winning"
I pass shit test...so I think
Day Eight: She texts me at 8am and says "hey im bored come meet me at school" i text back "haha just woke up, gotta brush teeth" . I meet her at 10am and we go and get bagels, I buy her some vitamin water and bagels. She is chatting with her friend, and I burst into the convo, DLV. It was supposed to be funny "Hey how do you know this character?" its always worked before, delivery was off. As we are walking randomly across campus
she says : "haha I made you happy twice today"
Love Ninja: "haha nooo you give your self too much credit (kino shoulder, I notice she pulls back, IOD) I make you happy cuz you'd be all bored"
She says: Nooooo I helped you finish the bagel ( i bought two) and you are no longer mad about earlier haha ( I was mad about the landlord).
LN: Ok ok fine! We make each other happy, period.
She says: HEY we are JUST FRIENDs!!
LN: yeah we are (inside im like WTF?!?!?!? WAAATTTTT???!!!! OMG I FUCKED UP!!!)
But I do not make it obvious, and we keep the conversation cool. Music, ect, etc. Later during the day I call her but doesnt pick up the phone, I send a tex message "Hey disney wat are you doing?" (she loves disney movies) "shopping"
So I call her..doesnt pick up, WTF?
So I decide to go about my business in town and oddly enough she runs into me, but I notice she avoids eye contact, so I say "Hey [insert name] I thought you were at home!"
she walks over to me and says "no, Im shopping- listen I gotta go"
Later during the day, I'm at a restaurant with friends she calls me and says "Hey I need you help, do you know any good lawyers my friends got in trouble, and she really needs help, do you know anyone?"
I say "Not right now, Im eating Manchu Wok so I'll call you later"
To which she replies, "ok fine I call you later then"
Later I send a text of a good lawyer I know and I receive a one word reply "Thanks"
Day Nine: She calls me and to ask me the stupidest question
she: "Hey I wanted to know where was the exam results?" (Its obviously on the professors office idiot!)
LN: "Professors office..."
she: "..ok okay, well I remember you said [insert bullshit]
LN: yeah its on the professors office
random fluff talk about what I did and going to dentist
she: Okay i'll see you tomorrow after class?
LN: I dont have class (I IOD, i was not happy with her)
she: ..oh okay
LN: yeah and I cant help you cheat on the test again, its not working out (I IOD again, yes i was very not happy)
she: well i didnt call you for that (shes getting angry)
Ln: ok well, I gotta go bye
she: bye
I havent talked to her in like 2 days- is there any way to save this? or should i move on?? I'm thinking maybe, get some other girls and then come back and talk to her- only after i get other women.
I want/hope you guys can help me out and give some advice on what to do regarding this particular situation.
I met her in business class and i used a situational opener "What did you get on your midterm?" with good Body Language. As result, we compared exams and everything went smoothly until number close, which she requested a day two, being a "study session".
Day Two: In the study session, we are in isolation in the library, IOIs, i run DHV stories, C & F, and some brief kino escalation, yet she is sitting too far away from me to do anything. When reading, she randomly asks me if I can remember any information from the books. This is an IOI, and i return IOI with "No i cant remember anything". We decide to leave and meet up the next day.
Day Three: We are now sitting in the university library cubicles, so we cannot talk to each other in order to ACTUALLY study (final exam the next day). Regardless, very little studying and mostly whisper chatting. I cannot kino escalate because of physical barriers (the cubicles) but we talk, she offers to scan me 30 pages of notes (I think this is an IOI) and does so.
Day Four, Exam Day: She is at the library I'm at home, she calls me up and says that "I cannot study at all, I can't remember anything", IOI anyone? I say that she should sit next to me and we should cheat together. Exam time, we text each other the answers and conspiracy is built. We go for icecream later, but I realize as I try to walk closer to her she pulls away. IOD, I try several times to walk closer to her but she keeps pulling away, WTF?!?!?! If I cannot get any proximity, how am I going to get kino?
Day Five: I ask her out to the local Casino, we talk for an 1hr on the phone. She agrees
Day Seven: She flakes and declines Casino invitation 2 hours prior through text messaging "hey hey sorry i cannot make it, Im too busy" I reply "Spain is going to destroy Germany 3-0!!" She is half german half somalian, her reply "Well maybe we should go another day & forget about spain winning"
I pass shit test...so I think
Day Eight: She texts me at 8am and says "hey im bored come meet me at school" i text back "haha just woke up, gotta brush teeth" . I meet her at 10am and we go and get bagels, I buy her some vitamin water and bagels. She is chatting with her friend, and I burst into the convo, DLV. It was supposed to be funny "Hey how do you know this character?" its always worked before, delivery was off. As we are walking randomly across campus
she says : "haha I made you happy twice today"
Love Ninja: "haha nooo you give your self too much credit (kino shoulder, I notice she pulls back, IOD) I make you happy cuz you'd be all bored"
She says: Nooooo I helped you finish the bagel ( i bought two) and you are no longer mad about earlier haha ( I was mad about the landlord).
LN: Ok ok fine! We make each other happy, period.
She says: HEY we are JUST FRIENDs!!
LN: yeah we are (inside im like WTF?!?!?!? WAAATTTTT???!!!! OMG I FUCKED UP!!!)
But I do not make it obvious, and we keep the conversation cool. Music, ect, etc. Later during the day I call her but doesnt pick up the phone, I send a tex message "Hey disney wat are you doing?" (she loves disney movies) "shopping"
So I call her..doesnt pick up, WTF?
So I decide to go about my business in town and oddly enough she runs into me, but I notice she avoids eye contact, so I say "Hey [insert name] I thought you were at home!"
she walks over to me and says "no, Im shopping- listen I gotta go"
Later during the day, I'm at a restaurant with friends she calls me and says "Hey I need you help, do you know any good lawyers my friends got in trouble, and she really needs help, do you know anyone?"
I say "Not right now, Im eating Manchu Wok so I'll call you later"
To which she replies, "ok fine I call you later then"
Later I send a text of a good lawyer I know and I receive a one word reply "Thanks"
Day Nine: She calls me and to ask me the stupidest question
she: "Hey I wanted to know where was the exam results?" (Its obviously on the professors office idiot!)
LN: "Professors office..."
she: "..ok okay, well I remember you said [insert bullshit]
LN: yeah its on the professors office
random fluff talk about what I did and going to dentist
she: Okay i'll see you tomorrow after class?
LN: I dont have class (I IOD, i was not happy with her)
she: ..oh okay
LN: yeah and I cant help you cheat on the test again, its not working out (I IOD again, yes i was very not happy)
she: well i didnt call you for that (shes getting angry)
Ln: ok well, I gotta go bye
she: bye
I havent talked to her in like 2 days- is there any way to save this? or should i move on?? I'm thinking maybe, get some other girls and then come back and talk to her- only after i get other women.