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Roadrunner_United
02-03-2007, 03:33 PM
I'm Going to Hit on You

by Randall


I've read a lot about different approaches to picking up women, so I thought I'd share my favorite approach. I use this approach all the time and it has a conversion rate of about 40 percent.

An example of this happened Tuesday afternoon.

I went to Borders to pick up a cup of coffee and saw a very attractive brunette reading a magazine. I sat next to her and simply said, "I'm going to hit on you, ok?"

She looked stunned and was at a loss for words. Before she could say anything I said, "So, what are you reading? How was that for a pickup line?"

I was doing this in a very playful manner, which led to a smile and her saying, "You're quite unique, aren't you?"

"Yes I am unique, that is if you like unique people" is what I responded with. We talked for about twenty minutes and she told me she had a boyfriend, but that it was nothing serious. She gave me her number and we have a date planned for next Saturday because I told her I had plans this weekend.

I feel much more comfortable with this approach than simply chit-chatting with someone when they know what I want but it isn't talked about. Now, THAT is uncomfortable.

Once you get past the question of "I'm going to hit on you, ok?" then it's easy sailing because she knows what you want and she will either let the conversation go on or will stop you dead in your tracks. And if that happens, then you don't want her anyway.

silvertongue
03-01-2007, 04:21 AM
Thats a pretty good approach.
Blatant and firm.

DiamondShow
03-01-2007, 08:12 PM
like it.
As for closing - Good for getting next date instead of just phone number.

But seriously, NEXT saturday??? next day dates are the only good ones as the passion you built hasn't faded.

jonzy!
10-12-2007, 03:42 PM
what about using that same like you used but spinning it a bit? something maybe like " ya know i was standing over there and i was gonna come hit on you, but..." and then go off into something like a neg or even borderline quilify

Mastery
04-07-2008, 04:42 AM
No, i think less words are better. It's simple. It's fun. It's exactly what I'm going to try because i like that. Thank you.

turboedturtle
04-16-2008, 09:29 AM
I'm going to use this next chance i get. Sounds simple and fun. I iagine it would catch a lot of ladies off guard.

I'm new to all this bt I gota start somewhere haha

qwerty123
04-16-2008, 10:27 AM
Turbo, the next chance you get?

That will probably be today then.....

I look forward to your report

qwerty123
04-16-2008, 10:29 AM
Jonzy's line spin could work quite well also, again if you stay playful etc

Eight
04-16-2008, 11:18 AM
That's cute.

I feel much more comfortable with this approach than simply chit-chatting with someone when they know what I want but it isn't talked about.

That's because it's all about frame control. Chit-chatting implies that you have not taken control of the frame and directed the conversation down a route of your choosing.

The reason this opener worked is because you controlled the frame right from the start. You directed the conversation and lead her along. Rather than being submissive and attempting to engage, you went ahead and engaged without permission, which set the frame into your control. Instant social value elevation through dominance. And you added playfulness to disarm her resistance.

I'm just explaining this shit out so those of you that have trouble opening can understand why this works, so that in the future, you will no longer feel the need to find "good openers". Once you understand the concepts behind the techniques, everything just gets easy and improvising becomes a breeze.

But back to the OP, I like it. Clever and cute. Kudos