Flakey or Busy?

[iamstretchypanda]

I met a cute girl at a friends party a month ago. I became the talk of the party when someone mentioned i had a few piercings in interesting places and i had shown them to some people at a party last week. All the girls were trying to pull me upstairs to show them and i said you gotta pay for that etc etc. Even the guys were saying dude you gotta show us, No homo. After this HUGE DHV spike we hit it off really well.

We spent a decent amount of time together and i number closed. While trying to setup day2 i kept running into aw i'd love to but i have to work or i have to do X. I got frustrated in getting blown off and some friends gave me this idea. We were talking on txt about the zoo. She said that's her favorite place, she'd love to take me. I asked when's good (instead of lets go tuesday etc). She said she was really busy with work blah blah blah and we can never set it up.

What throws me off is she will txt me occasionally out of the blue so i believe she is interested in getting together but genuinely busy. Surely she isn't busy 100% of the time. Any ideas on whats going on or where i should go from there. My goal is to close her or be friends with her it doesn't matter cause she has a twin sister ;)!

[iamstretchypanda]

I uploaded a copy of our most recent txting session. The chemistry and game is all there. Things seem to be moving in the right direction but i feel needy if i keep asking her to make plans and we are too busy to meet up.


Side note: Supporting .rtf or .odf (open document format) would be nice. .doc is proprietary to Microsoft and not everyone uses their products and .txt doesnt support formatting. And i had to zip the file to get it to fit.

Here's a copy but its harder to read than the attached one.

(i caught a baby bunny took a pic, sent it to her and said look i caught a baby bunny)what
Thats so cute! Name it sarah :) please
it might run away and txt me from time to time if i did that ;)
Ouch! You're not very nice :(
aw jk. ive wanted a bunny since i was like 5. i saved it from the neighbors cat :)
Well aren't you just a little hero! Haha how have you been?
haha i got this killer new car with subs (i didnt lose my license cause my awesome lawyer yay!). U cant drive it tho :(
I cant drive it? Haha why not?
cause ur a girl duhh! :). Its a stick. ohhh and i have vibrating seats its straight baller status!
Haha ok first of all im an amazing driver but i cant drive a stick lol.. It sounds bad ass though!
ha i love it to death. speaking of that have u read or at least heard of the secret?
Yea why?
well 4 months ago i hung up an exact picture of my car on my ceiling so i saw it when i wake up. took it down 2 weeks ago and bought the car. isnt that nuts
Thats so tight :) i wish you could do that with alot of things
if u only knew. im about 2 pass out but lets go out tomorrow
(15 min pause)
I have to work but not too late... Txt me tomorrow if you still want to
ahh yawwnn.. i was actually thinking around 10 (in the morning silly)
I have plans shoot im sorry i wouldn't have made them had i known.. Whats this about you being in a complicated relationship? Haha
(facebook relationship status is "It's complicated")
ok cool. Ha well i was txting this girl who feel in love with my baby bunny. We both like each other but cant find time to get together :(, Jk ;).
Haha you're adorable
neways continuing b4 u interruptd ;). the girl was determined 2 find a way 2 get 2gether. I have 2 work at 6pm 2omorrow if that helps her quest ;).
Crap i work at 3 and im busy til then.. When do you get off?
its not set in stone but i usually get off around 11.
I see.. Bummer
aw. im gonna pass out. im setting sarah free tomorrow in the AM :(
Night.. But no wait til at least i get to see!
my cats are harassing her too. i can only b a super hero till i gotta go 2 work lol
Oh fine lol
(i stopped txting right now, its 2am)

[Nargaroth]

If I was Jeffy I'd say something like "stop trying to impress her... just caveman her & bang her in the bathroom" but it's not that simple.

Sorry mate but this girl doesn't like you intrinsically - she just likes what you (can) provide for her and that is (so far) high social status & pretty good validation.

Check her for "attention whore" signals, I'm sure almost all will be there.
I've been in a very similar situation and threw that girl outta my life - she's like emotional vampire - just takes and takes and takes, never gives back.

All this being said, you definitely can bang her (seduction model 2.0, Mystery's button pushing game... put in some Vin DiCarlo & Swinggcat in the mix and you can't fail... if you're not needy ofcourse) but you're putting way to much energy & effort if you want just to bang her... and she is definitelly not relationship material.

Also check if she's drama queen type - if she makes scenes... you don't need that if she's near your social circle.

I suggest shifting to her sister - twins sometimes have very different personalities, so it may be more rewarding ;) Keep this girl interested but be elusive. Just imagine---Amazing things will begin to happen in your life and you just won't find the time to shoot the shit with her. (if you believe in Secret use Law of Attraction to really achieve that... not just tell her that).

If you're a pro you can use jealousy plotlines to have nice threesome... but it does require extreme game skill level and right type of girls.