How to play this one?

[wizardboy]

Hi.

I have recently been dumped by a girl purely for my lack of identity and being a complete minor. Since then, I have learned and advanced in seduction techniques and self-improved.

Here is the thing. Soon I am going to the city where she lives and we will meet. We have been in touch and remained friends.

I think she still loves me. Me? I am indifferent about her now.

I want to play her. Show her that she is no longer in charge and I am a changed man. The thing is I want to make her want me more than anything! And this girl - she can get anything she wants really. But I want her to desire me and not get what she wants. Then I will make my decision whether I should continue this relationship (its a hard decision for me). I view this as not mean but just a game.

So, community, here is my question to you. What do you recommend the best way to achieve my goal? To be more specific, list your responses to the following situations:

1. When we last talked, she said how she wants to swim in the sea at night with me like last year (fyi:naked). Do I go for it? - That would prob mean me making out with her etc.

2. If I end up in her room (and I will), and she wants to make love with me or something. How do I act? Shall I treat her as a 'buddy' when we are with friends and same when we walk together down the street? I was thinking completely screw with her mind and be like wanting to make out and then ignoring like I don't even know her.

3.What if she says 'do you think we made a mistake?' or 'I miss you'.

More to come. Sorry if its a long post.

Thanks!

[kaizen108]

Hey Wizarboy,

Im pretty sure the rest of the community could help you, I just think they haven't seen it, (0 replies)...

I think you should of posted it in seduction datebase chat section, maybe now though, put a thread in there asking for advice with a link back to this original thread...

(Im not sure that many peeps look in this section.........whereas everyone's looks in the chat section)

Anyway just a thought

[Relics]

Wizard Boy.

You seem to have some misogynistic tendencies about you. First read this post:
http://www.seductiondatabase.com/showthread.php?t=4300

Second, why would you want to do something like that? You cared for this person once before and for you to want to "play" her, to make her feel like you want her to feel is beyond me. Thats a terrible thing to do.

You say you want to show her you're the "MAN" now? Well then do it. But Do you think real MEN want to get back at their Ex- Girlfriends? Do you think real MEN need to SHOW people they're REAL MEN? Do you think real MEN play hard to get so the girls feel bad for making them feel bad?

HELL NO!

If she wants to fuck you, and you want to fuck her, then by all means go for it. Just let her know that you care about her still as a friend. That will never change. And that - if according to your feelings - you're not looking to be in a relationship at the moment, and that you enjoyed her company and that she's always welcome to yours.

Thats what a REAL man would do.

You know what she'll see? She'll see the changes IN you! She'll see the new, more mature, identity aligned person that you are!

She won't see the petty mind games that little BOYS play on the playground.

She'll see you as a MAN!

And don't blame her for dumping you as a "minor" If you weren't legal age, you weren't legal age. Call your congressman for that!

:)