What do women likes to talk about?

[sueda]

What do women likes to talk about?

Attraction stage:
celebrity gossips,
music, concert,
TV shows,
hobbies (hiking, biking, skydiving, parasailing, etc.),
sports (sometimes),
adventures, ESP,
Male-female relationships,
harmless gossips, fashion, feelings,
emotions, sex (use this topic with caution) etc.
- Qualify them. Ask them what have they done thats awesome/cool/adventurous
- Test them. Give them personality tests, esp, demonstrate value through little 'facts' you can tell her
about HERSELF
Comfort stage:
childhood memories, funny incidents, feelings, emotions,hobbies you have in common, vacations,
road trips.
..........
dude... pretty much you can use any topics except:
politics,
religion,
automotive,
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busines,
computers,
anything you geek out on, or anything that you would talk to your guy friends about.
And even these "forbidden" are topics to talk to her about, but it's not for beginners. And if you are
asking this kind of questions, you are not advanced enough PUA to talk about 'anything'

Women like to talk about men.

[Tommyp89]

Very nice list, and very true. Thanks

[Gashy]

You're helping a lot. Cool ;)

[Kasdrup]

Awsome list :)

What about bodybuilding? That's one of my biggest passions. I'm know that I'm supposed to talk about my passions, but is the girl really interested about hearing how I will be able to do 200kg in deadlift before June 2009?

[aberman]

umm.... if you make it exciting and interested, like if you really really believe it and you put your woo! into it, then it doesnt matter what you talk about, because she will find it interesting and exciting aswell.

[Clawn]

Awsome list :)

What about bodybuilding? That's one of my biggest passions. I'm know that I'm supposed to talk about my passions, but is the girl really interested about hearing how I will be able to do 200kg in deadlift before June 2009?

If you're going to tell it that factual, then no. Don't talk factual, that's for dudes. Bodybuilding is one of you biggest passions, surely you can figure out how to talk passionately about it. Talk about how motivated you are to reach your goals, and how you feel when you accomplisch a goal. Also, make sure you apply some grounding theory so it won't sound like bragging.

[sexyMAN]

becareful not to turn yourself to a girl by reading all these.

[unclesexysam]

thanx man, great help

[Liza]

As a woman, I respectfully disagree. I promise you that our lives aren't centered around celebrity gossip and TV :). It may be my line of work and personal hobbies, but I would honestly prefer to talk about the subjects in the second list much more so than the first.

:)

[Silver-bullet]

Yeah the second list is great if you are able to suspend your own beliefs and adopt hers but I ve screwed myself over with interesting girls by spilling out a belief system that didnt jive with hers too early in out relationship.

[Dr.Pepper]

Yes, the problem is that men (and women) have a lot of stupid ideas about the topics in the second list and using the first list brings them on the same level with the topics, thus they are less likely to have an entirely different opinion from each other. Thats why people usually don't argue about celebrities as much as politics.

In general you never should argue or try to win an argument with a girl you are talking to unless it's not obviously just funny for both. Even if you win it she will not think better of you. Most likely if she is arguing with you she is shit testing you and you should just switch the topic.

[Chubs]

Agree. Forget focusing on chick friendly topics. You don't want to come across as her gay hairdresser. Talk about what you're passionate about. It's the way you say it after all... Try talking talking to a girl about something mundane like taking out the rubbish... embellish it and make it sound like an adventure... you'll see you can talk about anything if you say it right. It's the emotions you convey. On a first date I'll talk about politics, death, w... but add at the end... "wow... that's deep, hey this is a first date we can't talk about this stuff"... as if it was her that brought it all up. works a treat and you gain a wider rapport than just sticking to fluff talk.

[Liza]

I agree that topics in the second list are more risky to talk about as I am sure there are plenty of people who are passionate and have formed deep rooted opinions on those subjects. Maybe that's part of the reason why when a guy brings up one of those topics my attention tends to snap to him - a man who can talk about his opinions on these topics openly and intelligently comes off as confident and as someone who is interested in more than somewhat shallow topics like TV or gossip :)

That's just my opinion and I don't consider it a definite for everyone. Best of luck :)

[Gameaholic]

I mean come on...can we really label what every women wants to talk about? Think about a women's forum labeling what men like to talk about. It might apply to some but others...probably not.

[playerBoy]

How about you all stop bitching to this guy, he's stepped forward and contributed something in the hope other people better themselves, and what have the rest of you all done, nothing apart from whine like little bitches!

Grow a pair, talk to a girl using his pointers, and if you dont agree dont check out the thread!

[giacomoP]

great list!! but all women are diferent..i talk to some who like politics and economy...
I think that is all about emocions..how she feel about everything!! some topics are better then others but if are curious about her, you will never be out of things to say!!

nothing to say? you are not curious!.. if you are in the red line..just ask a opinion about relationships..

like badboy say "is all about emocions" :)