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calib
07-16-2008, 10:04 PM
Being a new comer to the community I am still at the rookie level of understanding IODs and shit tests and how to respond to them. I just started out last week after being inspired by Mehow and wanted to try his method even though I am involved with someone right now.

I have been talking to this waitress at a restaurant I go to once a week and wanted to try Mehow's method on her. The first week I used the "paris hilton doggy carrier" bit and she almost floored. But I couldn't remember the rest of the lineup from the method and did not number close. But learned a lot about her and also that she goes to my gym.

Next time, I was a little more confident in my approach but still didn't go for the number-but did some kino plowing. Told her I will see her at the gym and when I did-did some kino and she asked me " i will see you at the restaurant tomorrow right?". So, by this point I thought it was lock.

Yesterday, I used the "three smiles" bit and "undercover waitress" bit which she was impressed by again. Finally, used road runner's "if only there was a way to talk to you" number close to which she said " that was very cute. i like that. we will see". then, finally before I left I opened another set and made sure she saw that and ended up getting the new set's number. Thought jealousy would do it but before I left I told her bye and said "i will call before i go to the gym tomorrow but wait " and she said "you may be a crazy psycho i am not giving you my number" I said "you caught me! how did you know?" she smiled and said "if i am an undercover agent, i will know your number already" i just laughed and left.
what am I supposed to think of this-is this just an IOD or has this one slipped away?

Thansk for the help guys!

aberman
08-03-2008, 07:30 PM
well first off, when you asked for her number, you basically de-validated everything you did. it makes you seem like you did all that stuff just to get her number. you need some serious damage repair, or w/e its called. for next time, i would just not mention it, beacuse you know where shes going to be, she works there, so you could figure out when she will be there, go with some friends, introduce her, and go from there.

calib
08-04-2008, 06:49 PM
hey thanks for the suggestion bro! I think I did exactly what you did last week and got some positive response. think she saw what she was missing and even showed some jealousy... thanks for your comment again!

Artax
08-06-2008, 05:21 PM
If you have any female friends (not a girlfriend) then get them to go to the restaurant sometime when she's working. Just let her see you with them to gain a little social proof. You have all the time in the world to get her number, so don't try for a while.

calib
08-07-2008, 04:33 AM
thanks artax!