Perfect routine for Comfort, A3-The most valuable thing you'll ever read! MUST SEE!!!

[Djinni]

Okay guys, this is so simple, but so perfect, there's honestly a part of me that wants to keep this to myself, to prevent it from becoming overplayed. But, alas, the Angel seems to be beating out the Devil on my shoulder, so I've decided to help the community that has taught me so much. My style focuses mostly on MM, and, in Mystery's book, he says to use the questions game as your default in comfort. BUT, my idea (simple, but incredibly effective), is to substitute the "I like" game (you say something you like, elaborate, then she says something she likes, and you elaborate on it, etc.). The reason you do this is 1. You have no clue what sort of questions she's going to ask in the questions game, BUT, with the I Like game, YOU lead the interaction (frame control), and, best of all, this allows you to preplan some canned DHV stories in the guise of your "I like" statements. My plan is to have around 4 good DHV stories to use for this game alone (4 stories would equal 8 questions, because you're alternating back and forth, and, honestly, I feel that any more than that would simply be overkill). In addition, with the questions game, when she says something you could qualify her for (even if you're genuinely interested in it), it can easily come off that you're seeking commonality or not being genuine, just because she said it FIRST. You could end up seeming like every AFC who says "Omg, I love blah blah blah too! We're so similar!". With the "I Like" Game, you can do a sort of cold-reading statement (in a very strange usage of the phrase), where you say something you like, but you know that with 99% of girls, it's going to hit, and they're going to love it to (thing about the beach, romantic bubble baths, etc.). And, because you said it first, you don't have to worry about them thinking you're not being genuine, but you still trigger commonality switches. Another great part of this game is that it can last a really long time! If you do it right, it should take around half an hour to get through 3 or 4 questions. And, even after you quit playing and move to another topic, if the conversation ever died down, you could revert back to it in a playful mannor by saying "I like...", and having a sly grin on your face. A good part about this structure is it gives her the opportunity to say "I like....YOU!", in the instances where you're not 100% if she's into you or not. Don't rely on her saying this, but it's just an added bonus. This format is also perfect for throwing in some NLP patterns, when otherwise they can come off a little preplanned. So, lets look at this. The game is played in comfort. Attraction lasts 2-5 minutes, then you move to qualification (A3) for maybe 10, then off to comfort. This routine is perfect for either A3, OR Comfort, OR both! So, after 5 mintues, this may be the only routine you need! Imagine that power. Imagine basically memorizing the interaction for 5 minutes tops, then being able to move to this routine, and let it guide you the whole way through (just be sure to keep up the kino! Which, by the way, kino can also be preplanned into your "I like" stories!). I'm just developing this system (and believe me, if you do this right, it IS a system!), so, I'd love to hear any and all expansions of this. So, if you have a cool idea that would help the "I like" game, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE let me know!

[Djinni]

Oh, forgot to mention, with the questions game, where she's just asking you things about yourself, with the I LIke game, she has to remember all these things she likes, which brings back all the emotions she has associated with these things, and then, guess what? She links them to you!!!

[KinG-ProDigY]

haha funny thing is i made a variation of this routine as well but it isn't "i like" still great though. i love where you're going with this. i was curious as to your suscess rate of this routine. everytime you hit comfort does the girl really get involved in this routine?

[Djinni]

Yes, I usually start it mid way through A3 (qualification. I'll start it after a few qualifying questions like "what did you want to be when you were 7", etc.), and I'll use it to quallify a bit more, then I'll use it for as long as I can in Comfort before I feel like 1. either she's getting bored (note that I don't wait for her to say this, I just calibrate it and move on. Just like with kino), or 2. I feel like I don't need it anymore. But yes, in comfort, you should be getting mutual complience, so, there's no reason she shouldn't play along. If she won't, you're not really in comfort afterall. Just IOD, and resume A2.

[menacel]

heh pretty nifty

[creme de la creme]

I'm kinda confused could you organize your post in a way to explain how the game is played like a set of directions or something. Please.

thanks in advance.

[beware76]

structure ur post better, i would love to read this but i cant ur text is 1 big chunk and its making me dizzy just looking at it!

Learn to use new-line and spacing so u dont have 1 big chunk of text.
Even in books the use new-line and spacing, this is supposed to be a forum that should be easy to read!

Im not flaming or belitteling ur imput, im trying to get u to c what a big diffrence proper typing has for your readers!

[beware76]

Plz learn to ...
structure ur post better, i would love to read this but i cant ur text is 1 big chunk and its making me dizzy just looking at it! Learn to use new-line and spacing so u dont have 1 big chunk of text. Even in books the use new-line and spacing, this is supposed to be a forum that should be easy to read! Im not flaming or belitteling ur imput, im trying to get u to c what a big diffrence proper typing has for your readers!




Wich of my posts are easier to read .....

[Apathy]

beware76: Dude, have your eyes checked.

Thanx for the good post, will try it out this weekend.

[dopi]

thanks man

[giacomoP]

this is very good!! question game i don´t use it any more..is to overplayed..i only use if i have really good questions!! that she never expected to listen...but like you said, with i like game you can, know the people to, and tell stories. Is a great ideia...

For the kino that you talking about..what pop´s up my mind is telling that you like to read people and!! this take the interaction to a funny and intresting place where you touch her all the time...or maybe you can say that you love to give massage and say "like this" and give a litle massage on her...

thanks for the idea man!! and keep posting about the progress and new ideas for the routine!!

[Dr.Pepper]

WOW, thats good thinking man, I will certainly try it out on some prudish German babes. ;)

[MvP]

What exactly is this I like game about?We dont seem to play it in this part of the world -)

[fox hunter]

this is indeed good stuff

[kickfliptocasper]

This is interesting. Instead of asking questions about what SHE likes, you make statements about what YOU like...and relate that to her by cold reading her or asking what she thinks. Pepper in a few DHV stories and some NLP patterns, and ouila.
We've all done this at one point or another...but bringing it to light is fantastic Djinni. After all, part of being an alpha is being aware of what you're doing.

[Autumn]

sounds like fun- though do not go too outlandish with it- "I like... Nights of erotic sex" *wink*- though it could be fun...