i need ur opinion on this number close

[slingingshot15]

ok..i've never tried this before but i wanna know what u guys think about this..

lets just say ur talking to a girl and ur having a good time etc..when ur ready to leave u can say..' hey it was nice talking but i gotta go now....anyway...here's my number so we can still keep in touch.' After you give her your number you walk away...

i know some guys believe we should get their number and not give her ours without getting hers but heres my take on this...Normally a woman will expect you to ask for her number and if you dont ask for it but give her yours..then it kinda makes her wonder if you are really into her or not and puts u in the kinda mysterious zone....you dont look like the needy type....Its all up to her if she wants to ever meet you or talk to you again or not...and this way you can know for sure if you gained her interest or not....and if she never calls..then you already know that u and her would have nevr worked out in the first place..... and you just move on to the next target....if she really enjoyed your company she would have calleed you and when she calls or text, you will see her number show up on your phone AND then now you have her number too...

what do you all think about this...can it work or not or maybe it needs some fine tuning....please share...thanks

[Soap]

in my experience through business, leaving a number and expecting that person to call doesn't work.
you kind of have to take the initiative and not leave it up to chance. it's the follow up, bro.

[aberman]

k dude, im not usually one to like really bash an idea, but this one, really sucks >.<'
it sucks sooo bad, that ill even explain why it sucks. k so lets say you meet girl. lets say you like girl. lets say that you are kino'ing. lets say she kino's back. lets assume she likes you. lets assume this is in the bar btw. k now, lets assume you give her your number. WRONG! thats like the major thing, in my experiance, if you want to seem alpha, you take HER number, say like, k so whats your number. to me, giving my number is like giving my power away, because then i dont decide when to call and when is a good time for me. k so lets continue. lets assume she says oh cool! lets also assume its about time for you to leave, its like 1 maybe, shes leaving aswell. lets assume you KISS her goodbye, and you walk off and she walks off. or you drive her home, what ever. lets assume its tomorrow. now lets assume that she is thinking of you. here is where it gets ugly. k so in my experiance, girls like to doubt themselves. especially, when they've had something to drink, or they just weren't "themselves" as most say, about the decisions they made while in that alien state. k so shes thinking oh he was cool, i would go for him, but you know i was drinking, maybe hes not so cool, maybe i should call him to find out, but you know, if hes not cool, hes not really worth my time(back in the high and mighty shit there), you know, i dont think he was that cool after all, i dont think i will call him, i think im going to delete his number now

GAME OVER

k, now you know, ALWAYS GET HER NUMBER!

[slingingshot15]

hey guys thanks for the feedback....and aberman i appreciate your bluntness and honesty and I hold nothing against u for what u said.....thanks for your input

[aberman]

Yeah bro, I know how it is when... You put a lot of effort into creating techniques and routines and all that stuff, how I used to make it a science, and stuff... But remember, pickup isn't logical, were talking about women you know.

[slingingshot15]

thanks aberman ...if i ever neeed any more advice i'll be sure to ask u...thanks

[kickfliptocasper]

Hey Slingshot. IF you really confident that think that this chick is going to call you then by all means.

But really, it's true that you can build attraction out of nothing rite. Think of all the girls that you've ever met and the one's that make you feel really good. Now imagine if halfway through you're convo... you just whipped out your phone like you got a text message, and smiled. Right away, you've created jealousy with the girl whose sitting there. Now get back to her, and start qualifying her on

whether she's adventerous or not. Adventerous enough to hang out with you?

If she says yes, what I do is compliment her on her confidence...and give her my phone. Tell her to pop in her digits...and take her phone and do the same. Then continue the convo. avoid leaving right after getting the number, if you do, it looks like that's all you wanted from her.

Just have really solid phone game, and even in the worst case scenario that you did come off a little needy in the venue, you can make up for it by being high value over the phone.

[mark3331]

To slingingshot15:

Asking this kind of question shows us that you FEAR rejection. So you leave it up to girl to take the leading ROLE.

ITs the mans job to take the lead.

Mandatory!

[slingingshot15]

OK SIR!!!!!!