Remote Seduction.

[Mr.E/Hypnotist]

I have heard of something called "The Instant Rapport Technique" in which one remembers the feelings associated with a good friend. Then you think of the color and body feelings associated with it and you wrap yourself in those feelings then send them to another person. Now, I have tried this a couple of times with not much of a result. So, has anyone done this successfully and what tips would you give if you have? Thank you E.W.

[caron_400]

ok first of, you shouldn't use something you don't understand to begin with (this is my personal opinion), but do as you please.

Rapport is, to make it really simple, a positive vibe between you and someone, the better the vibe is, the more rapport you have with the person.

You can create rapport artificially, but only initially, after some time, you NEED to build REAL rapport with the person for you to continue to have a great vibe, or else the vibe will fall to the ground.

To create a "fake" vibe, simply mirror the other person, this means, match there breathing, give them as much eye contact as they give you, move at the same speed they do, hold yourself in the same fashion they do (unless its weird to do so), match they way they talk (the speed, the tonality, the volume, the use of pause), generally mold yourself to the way they are, imitate them in every way possible.

Doing so will create initial rapport, they will feel like you understand them simply because you are like them. This will create the space for you to create "real" rapport.

To create "real" rapport, find commonalities, share similar stories, get to know them as human beings, get they're values, generally make friends with them.

If you still don't know How to create rapport, in10se has some great material on the subject.

Have fun learning.