joe2
04-21-2007, 05:40 PM
I read all theory but few questions to those who practise a lot while opening several sets a night.
1) How can you prevent a perception of being male player and playboy when you closed one set and let's say got a phone for TBridge, then next one, then 3rd , 4th, and did you ever called and dated girls from set 1, 2, 3, or 4 out of 10? What did they think when they saw you talking and getting 5-7 numbers lets say - as she does not see all you routines, but when positioned nicely in a club can see pretty much everything?
Does next sets diminish your chances of closure or not. I mean with 2-3 sets I can understand that you are getting jealousy effect but with 8 sets opened and closed on very eyes of a girl from set #1 , you must seem to be too easy going or something ?, or am I being AFC here ? :confused:
2) Or is that theory for several clubs a night. ?
3) Do you have to modify it somehow in city where you live and meet you friends in clubs?
I mean in 400,000 city you have from my observation about 400-500 nice girls to approach, some of them appear every few weeks in same/other clubs. Should this theory be used more on trips like when Mystery or other guys travel round US and Canada cities - so you do not have to care what people say - cause soon you leave for another city anyhow ?
4) TIME MANAGEMENT - I mean man if you open10 sets , 8 successful let's say a night, . After 4 days you have 20-40 phone numbers.
How can you date all those girls within next few days? How you choose or screen those good prospect ones?
And on top of that, in next few days you get another chance to be in a club and get next phone numbers.
How you memorize all those names and topics you discussed, details about a girl for next meetings, phonecalls.
I am not trying to question theory here but I tried with 3 girls and I already few times messed some details and mixed few things.
Any ideas ?
thanks for any comment and ideas :)
:) Cheers :)
Joe
1) How can you prevent a perception of being male player and playboy when you closed one set and let's say got a phone for TBridge, then next one, then 3rd , 4th, and did you ever called and dated girls from set 1, 2, 3, or 4 out of 10? What did they think when they saw you talking and getting 5-7 numbers lets say - as she does not see all you routines, but when positioned nicely in a club can see pretty much everything?
Does next sets diminish your chances of closure or not. I mean with 2-3 sets I can understand that you are getting jealousy effect but with 8 sets opened and closed on very eyes of a girl from set #1 , you must seem to be too easy going or something ?, or am I being AFC here ? :confused:
2) Or is that theory for several clubs a night. ?
3) Do you have to modify it somehow in city where you live and meet you friends in clubs?
I mean in 400,000 city you have from my observation about 400-500 nice girls to approach, some of them appear every few weeks in same/other clubs. Should this theory be used more on trips like when Mystery or other guys travel round US and Canada cities - so you do not have to care what people say - cause soon you leave for another city anyhow ?
4) TIME MANAGEMENT - I mean man if you open10 sets , 8 successful let's say a night, . After 4 days you have 20-40 phone numbers.
How can you date all those girls within next few days? How you choose or screen those good prospect ones?
And on top of that, in next few days you get another chance to be in a club and get next phone numbers.
How you memorize all those names and topics you discussed, details about a girl for next meetings, phonecalls.
I am not trying to question theory here but I tried with 3 girls and I already few times messed some details and mixed few things.
Any ideas ?
thanks for any comment and ideas :)
:) Cheers :)
Joe