imported_finecracker
05-19-2007, 03:22 PM
Hello,
Appreciate all the efforts of each member in either striving to understand the mind of the most irrational being on earth. And kudos to all those who are helping out other less experienced brothers!
All the techniques listed here work to some degree (some more than less and some less than more - depending on each unique creature, timing and circumstance)
There is one area that I think is a power arena that we need to deal with as women are more and more being aware and wary of men's moves and techniques. I am talking about the woman who deliberatly plays the role of a power player - with the sole intention of turning all men down and making them psychological wrecks and living off their drained energy. Let me talk of an actual scenario so I am not misleading you.
A workplace (with people from all around the world- yes this is a real place and I work here!)
A married Asian woman in her mid thirties. Targeted five married males of different nationalities. Singled them out, took them out for lunch and acted very friendly and 'drawn' with each of them. Sometimes very subtly played with allowing them to deliberately touch her - when the male tries to actually reach her out (kino) puts herself on a pedestal and says she does not like when you do it - it is all in your mind. I am not sure what the other guys did - they have all distanced from her now. I acted as if I don't care and made three different attempts knowing I will be rejected. After each rejection she tried wooing me back again. As I know she is a player (myself a player too) and having two other women in my arsenal - it did not hurt me, I did not break down. The others at the work place did. She is still stupefied as to why I am not breaking down with all the attraction / rejection / re-attraction / re-rejection and the cycle continues . . .
I am now planning to 'play' with her mind. Sneak into her room , kiss her on the neck without any reason, licking my forefinger and touching it on her nose . . . etc (without verbalizing any of the intentions behind the actions). Say things like . . ." This morning when I was in the shower . . I was thinking of you . . . and wrestling with this idea . . not you . . lol that would be afuuny sight . . you and me wrestling in the shower . . anyway . . . " and so on.
Any tips on how to deal with such a tease at workplace?
Appreciate all the efforts of each member in either striving to understand the mind of the most irrational being on earth. And kudos to all those who are helping out other less experienced brothers!
All the techniques listed here work to some degree (some more than less and some less than more - depending on each unique creature, timing and circumstance)
There is one area that I think is a power arena that we need to deal with as women are more and more being aware and wary of men's moves and techniques. I am talking about the woman who deliberatly plays the role of a power player - with the sole intention of turning all men down and making them psychological wrecks and living off their drained energy. Let me talk of an actual scenario so I am not misleading you.
A workplace (with people from all around the world- yes this is a real place and I work here!)
A married Asian woman in her mid thirties. Targeted five married males of different nationalities. Singled them out, took them out for lunch and acted very friendly and 'drawn' with each of them. Sometimes very subtly played with allowing them to deliberately touch her - when the male tries to actually reach her out (kino) puts herself on a pedestal and says she does not like when you do it - it is all in your mind. I am not sure what the other guys did - they have all distanced from her now. I acted as if I don't care and made three different attempts knowing I will be rejected. After each rejection she tried wooing me back again. As I know she is a player (myself a player too) and having two other women in my arsenal - it did not hurt me, I did not break down. The others at the work place did. She is still stupefied as to why I am not breaking down with all the attraction / rejection / re-attraction / re-rejection and the cycle continues . . .
I am now planning to 'play' with her mind. Sneak into her room , kiss her on the neck without any reason, licking my forefinger and touching it on her nose . . . etc (without verbalizing any of the intentions behind the actions). Say things like . . ." This morning when I was in the shower . . I was thinking of you . . . and wrestling with this idea . . not you . . lol that would be afuuny sight . . you and me wrestling in the shower . . anyway . . . " and so on.
Any tips on how to deal with such a tease at workplace?